If you are dating a man/woman who cheats on you, talks down to you, refuses to support you, abuses you in any way shape or form, DUMP HIM/HER IMMEDIATELY. Do not give an ultimatum, just leave/kick them out. If he/she doesn't respect and love you now, he/she never will even if you lose the weight, change your looks/personality to make them happy, become the "barbie dol"l porn start type chick/hugely muscle-y hung porn guy.......You deserve better. It doesn't matter if you're 400 lbs or 120 lbs, if you have red hair, blonde hair, black hair or purple with blue stripes and polka dotted hair... Someone who loves you will love you no matter what, for who you are or what you look like.
A man (or woman) who loves you will never cheat or threaten to cheat "because" of your weight, hair, personality etc....
A man (or woman) who loves you will never make you feel that you are unworthy of him/her.
A man (or woman) who loves you will never belittle or talk down to you about your weight/looks/personality/etc...
A man (or woman) who loves you will always want the best for your health and happiness.
A man (or woman) who loves you will always provide positive support to you in your journey, whatever it may be...
A man (or woman) who loves you will always celebrate your victories and help you move past your failures.
Stand up for yourself. Don't be afraid to be single just because you're with some jerk. I don't care what he or she says. You CAN and SHOULD have better. Surround yourself with loving friends and family and keep your chin up.
Hold your head up high ladies (and gents)! Be proud of yourself and surround yourself with the ones who love you, boyfriend/girlfriend/fiancee/spouse or not....there is to many beautiful things in this world to surround yourself with people who have ugly, black hearts who seek out to destroy other people simply because they feel the need.
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